The thing about being a house wife and stay at home mom ( which I pretend to still be even though I am working out of the home part-time these days) is that it is complicated. For one thing we don’t get a lot of respect as a profession because I think people figure anyone can do these tasks and if anyone can do them they must not have value. This is just a guess I don’t know but I do know they tend to not get respect. What is amusing about this is that these two jobs are really hard!
Anyone that is a mother knows motherhood is no joke, and it’s not like you can call in sick. You are there all the time 24/7 rain or shine through good times and bad times and sick and cranky. You are in charge of oh so much and for some crazy reason people (especially those without kid experience) think you sit at home and watch your stories while your child does who knows what. Maybe plays quietly by themselves or peacefully with siblings and teaches themselves how to read and have manners. In short they don’t think of it as a job.
Trust me folks it is a job. True I don’t get paid for it and it is a labor of love but it is hard work and should be treated that way. When I clock in at my other job I am expected to be present and focused on my work. When I am home with Little it is the same thing. I need to be in the now and focused on her. I happen to also be in charge of about a zillion other things and so I have a home makers binder that I use to get my work done and stay one step ahead of the game. Because running out of food when you need to cook dinner or clean underwear when you need to get dressed is just not ok!
I do love trees. The quote on the bottom is from Gretchen Ruben’s book “The Happiness project” it says “the days are long, but the years are short” good for perspective. The binder itself is about an inch thick and I use the Martha Stewart tab dividers.
next up the back of my binder.
my weekly plan. I color when Little colors. besides it is so much prettier to look at. Anyway I keep it on the see through on the back so I can see it easily. The first column I just have the days of the week and my dinner theme of that day. The next column has my to do list that I fill in. And the last has my activities that are assigned a particular day. The bottom footer shall we call it has my daily task that I do every day and sometimes need to look at pre coffee to remember what it is I am doing. I included my version as a PDF here week at a glance
When opened the first section is called Calendar. Now for my actual Calendar I use the flylady wall calendar so what I have in here is my important dates page.
Followed by a print out of this month
at this point I should say no one sees this for me so I don’t care about my messy writing or that I can’t spell 🙂 As you can tell I use the back of the month to write out ideas both for Little’s education and for our family holidays or really anything else pertaining to this month. I will probably go find the right place in my Book of days (peak here or here) to write it in or write it up and put it in.
This is followed by the current months section from my Book of days. So this month I have August in and at the end of the month I will take it out and put in September.
My Next section is called Rhythm with as you guess various rhythms
This was taken from a pin I saw on pinterest and you can see the blog post here.
These are the themes I use for Little’s education. I made them up myself 🙂 it Gives each month a nice focus and is something that you can use at any age of a child.
After rhythm is my menu planning section.
This is my menu plan and shopping list for the week. Mi casa es su casa so her is my menu plan for you to use as you like. behind this I might have recipes that I plan to use for the week.
I think have another food section with a print out of typical harvest availability dates for my area( I think I got it from upick.org), several pages with lists of food ideas one page for each day of the week. I also keep pinterest boards by category. So I have a food love pasta board, because Monday is pasta night. Hopefully in the near future I will be reorganizing my ginormas Cook Book binder and so this might change but for now it works.
Which tells you how to store what, and you can find it here.
Next section is Little’s section. I have her lesson plan.
I have our Simplified Lesson Plan followed by some different articles that I find meaningful for us during whatever stage we happen to be in. They may be on sleep or on developing the habit of yes or really what ever we are going through right then.
Next up is my blog section which I have shared about before but basically I have my weekly blog sheet followed by paper for other ideas that come to me.
I then have a clean section with papers like this
which is a copy from I think a 2009 real simple but really any recipe you want to keep on hand for cleaning solutions or cleaning tricks. I also have the detailed cleaning list from flylady like this one
The next sections my emergency section which no doesn’t have chocolate in it though an envelope with a stashed bar is not a bad idea…I digress. I am working on this section and am using this post that I found via pinterest of course.
As with everything this is a work in progress for me. If you want to follow along with my crazy please feel free to follow my pinterest board