Tonight is the night before the new moon, which means it is a excellent time to do go away magic. There are as I have said basically two kinds of magic. one is to draw something to you an the other is to get rid of something in your life. When you look at it really they are two sides of the same coin (Hermetic law of polarity) really you are using your energy to illicit change in your life. Let us say that you have a happy life but there is a person in your past that keeps cropping up and irritating your mind. By that I mean you are thinking of them or dreaming of them and they seem to always be on your mind. Let us say this is a past love and you are now happily with someone else. We need to look at several aspects of this to bring about the change that you need to give you peace of mind. 1. we will ask for help getting them out of your mind. 2. We need to focus you on something else. Below is a two part spell to cover your basis.
First I want you to contemplate a few things. Why are you thinking of this person. Do you have rose colored glasses on? Are you thinking of what could have been? Is there something going on in your current love life that you don’t want to deal with and so you are focusing somewhere else? If something comes to mind then you need to address that issue. Perhaps it is just time gone by and a younger you or a different life. In which case you need to start counting your blessings and being thankful for what you have.
All you need for this spell is a candle of any color though light pink is particularly nice. You can get as fancy as you want to, dressing it with oils or herbs, but you don’t have to. I would recommend doing this as a kitchen table spell or dinning room table. By that I mean sitting at the table Cast a circle and once you feel in the right space say the following (or similar words)
“Gracious Goddess and Gracious God please cut the cord that binds, let ______ have a his/her life but keep them off my mind. If my thoughts to them should turn, I know this candle I can burn. That you Dear Goddess and God, will grant me peace and happiness. For this I thank you knowing that I am truly blessed,”
Now think of at least 3 things that you are so thankful for in your current love life. Light the candle and thank the God and Goddess for each of those things. Spend as much time as you wish counting your blessings. Then extinguish the candle.
On the first day after the new moon light the candle again thanking the God and Goddess for your current love, and naming 3 things you love about them. You can continue to do this night after night as long as you which. If your thoughts ever do turn to the past, stop it right there. Quickly focus on the present and your current love, what you love about them, and what you are thankful for. This is redirecting your energy to your current life and to better suite your needs.